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		<title>Too Small to Succeed!</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Aug 2011 23:35:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lisa Gilford</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[So says Citi Bank! A lose-lose for everyone. An apology to all those who come to my blog: Red Diaper Baby for Blacklist reminiscence. This isn’t that. But the thread is my mother, a Communist-leaning activist who nonetheless would’ve been devastated by the mortgage crises as it developed in 2008. Luckily for her, she died [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=lisaleegilford.com&amp;blog=7224427&amp;post=112&amp;subd=reddiaperbaby&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So says Citi Bank! A lose-lose for everyone.<br />
An apology to all those who come to my blog: Red Diaper Baby for Blacklist reminiscence. This isn’t that. But the thread is my mother, a Communist-leaning activist who nonetheless would’ve been devastated by the mortgage crises as it developed in 2008. Luckily for her, she died a few months before the bottom fell out.<br />
My mother, Madeline, may have been a Trotskyite but when it came to real estate she was a carnal capitalist. She drove Jack crazy by investing in more acreage and a bigger house in Connecticut and moving out of a rent controlled (gasp) 11-room apartment in Greenwich Village in 1974 to buy a co-op in a converted bread factory in the now tragically hip “meat district” for $250,000—a king’s ransom in those days.<br />
She never saw it coming, dying in April, 2008, leaving her incredible Connecticut spread to fall into foreclosure and her beloved Greenwich Village Co-op to become a causality of a short sale. ** Two weeks before she died she said, “Lisa, I want to die in this house.” I said, “Ma, don’t worry, you will.” And she did.<br />
She drummed into my head, “You can never lose on real estate.” So for the last 40 years I’ve bought, improved and sold seven houses, all for a tidy profit. But now…along comes 2008, and due to no fault of my own, or other homeowners, the house I bought for $240,000 in 2004, rebuilt and renovated in 2005 and reappraised for $475,000 in 2006 was reduced to $399,000 3 years later in 2009! How could that be?<br />
The Obama Administration saw the unfair nature of the situation and offered the “HAM” product: “Home Assistance Mortgage.” Government-backed guarantees to mortgage companies to help us out—Quickly. The purpose of the program was to reduce interest rates on existing mortgages. After all, the Feds were reducing interest rates on everything, why not mortgages? The point was to help homeowners pay more principal and play “catch up” on the devalue of their homes.<br />
The government assured homeowners that the process would be quick. I was one of the first to apply for a HAM with CitiBank —guaranteed to take less than 3 months. It took 18 months. I jumped through every hoop, faxed every piece of paper requested, dealt with “lost financial packages” sent Fed Ex, duplicated every application a dozen times, called functionaries, supervisors, was put on hold for hours….but I got one! I got a HAM. They converted my 7% 30-year fixed to 3.65%. I was thrilled.<br />
Then the unthinkable…. In 2010, CitiMortgage did a “Google Fly By” appraisal and downgraded my home to $230,000…$10,000 less than I bought it for in 2004. And I wasn’t alone.<br />
I live in a desirable neighborhood, on a unique street where every house was built in 1951 by a woman architect who studied under Eichler. Mid-Century Modern is the term used to describe the 20 houses on Ivy Street. My nextdoor neighbor listed her house for $389,000 a year ago. No takers. She’s now reduced the price to $230,000. My neighbor across the street listed his house for $280,000 but reduced the price to $250,000. Two houses down, the couple bought the house for $214,000 a few months ago—and so it goes.<br />
A ray of light appeared when the New York Times ran a front page story on a new program being embraced by the mortgage banks: Principle Reduction Assistant, (PRA) available to homeowners who are current on their mortgages but whose mortgages are “under water,” meaning the value is 115% below the current mortgage. The government is providing assistance to banks to forgive principle for those people who are “at risk” of walking away from their house. I call Citi Mortgage the next day only to be told my account must be “unlocked.” Call back in 10 days. I call back in 10 days. No body “unlocked it.” Call back in 10 days. Then another 10 days and another. After two months I escalate the request. That’s the term I’ve learned to deal with inequities of all kinds and with all creditors.<br />
But now my line is this: “The lady next door will rent me her house for $1200 per month. I don’t have to fix her roof or mow her lawn. It’s not my problem. Why should I stay next door, in my house and pay $2400 in mortgage payment every month, paying thousands more in keeping up the house when it will never again be worth what I owe- $389,000. Especially at 65 years old! No kids home. I live here alone. All I’d have to do is pack a few boxes and move a few animals…next door. I anyone listening?<br />
I spoke to a supervisor yesterday who told me that although, “they didn’t want my house back” I already had a “HAM” so couldn’t apply for another one, even though this one wasn’t available even 3 months ago. I would’ve applied for this one, but it wasn’t available. No matter how much I put into this house it will never be worth what it was mortgaged at 5 years ago. So why shouldn’t I simply move next door, pay rent and give this house back to the bank? I reasoned that if they gave me a reduction in principle they would be losing less than if I walked away and they had to sell this house.<br />
I told them that even if housing prices recovered, it may take 10 years—I’d be 75 years old. I don’t want to saddle my children with having to short sell my home, or worse see it go into foreclosure because the gap between what I owe and what they can sell it for is over $100,000.<br />
So far, they’re not listening to me. Or to Martin Feldstein, an economist from Harvard who said (on Charlie Rose) that the only way homeowners can become consumers again is to give us the PRA.<br />
Stay tuned. I’m not giving up. I’ve got nothing to lose. I can always move next door and watch my home fall into disrepair as the bank tries to sell it. It’s a lose-lose.<br />
And now for your practically useless piece of information, as if the preceding blog were not enough—put a cup of white vinegar in your dishwasher once a month and run it. Better than all those expensive dishwasher cleaners and better for the environment.<br />
Lisa Gilford<br />
**My mother&#8217;s incompetent executor did the short sale. Didn&#8217;t need to be so days the real estate agent and the other co-op owners.</p>
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		<title>Leif &#8211; We love you</title>
		<link>http://lisaleegilford.com/2011/05/04/leif-we-love-you/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 04 May 2011 05:28:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lisa Gilford</dc:creator>
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		<title>Lars the Wonder Dog</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Apr 2010 00:31:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lisa Gilford</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In his short life Lars logged more miles than most Leos. Born in Sweden, by air to Arizona, by car to Colorado, by car to CT for summers than finally to be home in CT until his death. He liked it all (except Arizona!). He was such a cooperative, good boy. He adjusted to all [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=lisaleegilford.com&amp;blog=7224427&amp;post=102&amp;subd=reddiaperbaby&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In his short life Lars logged more miles than most Leos. Born in Sweden, by air to Arizona, by car to Colorado, by car to CT for summers than finally to be home in CT until his death. He liked it all (except Arizona!). He was such a cooperative, good boy. He adjusted to all the changes in his life because he loved &#8220;his people&#8221; and &#8220;his life.&#8221;<br />
I knew pretty early that Lars was not just a great Leo when he jumped in a large pond on a golf course at 12 weeks old, paddling around like he had been born in the water! Then he jumped over the hood of my Wagoneer when he was a year old! I swear he was part race horse. He played with Leif, the four cats, my grandchildren and me, always busy, always looking for a challenge. <img src="///Users/lgilford/Library/Caches/TemporaryItems/moz-screenshot.png" alt="" /><img src="///Users/lgilford/Library/Caches/TemporaryItems/moz-screenshot-1.png" alt="" /><img src="///Users/lgilford/Library/Caches/TemporaryItems/moz-screenshot-2.png" alt="" /><br />
He passed obedience just shy of his first birthday, loved his water rescue classes and especially swimming in my mother&#8217;s pool in Bethlehem, CT. every summer. He never, ever got out. He especially like the sound of his body as it splashed when it hit the water! He was the super star of his Agility class. I had to fix him because he was so big and other male dogs were picking on him, but before I did, I had his semen frozen. I knew he was so special in so many ways and if the time ever came that someone wanted a Leo &#8220;that could leap small buildings in a single bound,&#8221; loved people and was super smart&#8211; Lars was their boy. I never stopped paying the storage fee, like I wanted a part of Lars to go on forever.<a href="http://reddiaperbaby.files.wordpress.com/2010/04/lars-winning-agilty.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-106 alignleft" style="margin:5px;" title="Lars winning Agilty" src="http://reddiaperbaby.files.wordpress.com/2010/04/lars-winning-agilty.jpg?w=300&#038;h=225" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a><br />
In 2007 I made the hardest, but best decision of his life. I had known Mark and Diane Bancroft since going to their infamous Leo Labor Day Picnic in 2001 (who knew it would be just 2 days before 9/11 when Leif and I were walking down there at 8:40 am!!) We returned every year.  So when they lost their Gunther, I approached them about Lars. He deserved more than I could give him. He needed to approach his amazing agility potential and be as active, both mentally and physically as he wanted to be. My husband always joked that I really wanted to live with the Bancrofts and would do so vicariously through Lars.<br />
He was never, ever sick. Never. Hips great, joints, no problems. I knew he&#8217;d love his new parents and his new digs. And he did. Lars went to live with the Bancrofts a few weeks before his 4th birthday. He immediately fell into their great routines, falling madly in love with Mark, Diane, Gretel and Xavia. I got excited phone calls when Lars won his agility trials, learned to climb the raft ladder, and did silly things. I was looking forward to many more years of visiting Lars. After all, my routine was to drive with Leif from Colorado to Connecticut in June, stay at my mother&#8217;s country house a few hours from the Bancrofts,  visit Lars, cheer him on at his Agility and Obedience trials and drive back to Colorado right after the Bancroft&#8217;s Labor Day Leo Picnic. I had no idea then that my routine would be rudely interrupted by my mother&#8217;s sudden death in March, 2008. That summer I made my last trip to her house, sadly packing up what I could save, then after visiting Lars several times, driving back to Colorado with a very sad Leif. Now Lars is gone too.<br />
I always thought that Lars would live forever, that I would have an excuse to go back and visit, watch him grow old. Ironically he ended up dividing his short life almost equally between us. This morning, Diane made me laugh so hard recounting Lars&#8217; antics in the pet store and the court house. Laughing about this truly happy Leo was a very good thing. There&#8217;s a sect of Judaism that believes in the Kabbalah. The Kabbalah says that the reason children and people die young (and I assume the same would be true of animals) is because they&#8217;ve done what they were put on this earth to do, and can now rest in peace. I know that&#8217;s true for Lars. &#8220;Lejonland&#8217;s Gustav &#8220;Lars&#8221;, January 23, 2003 &#8211; March 9, 2010&#8243; RIP Sweet Boy.<br />
Love,<br />
Your &#8220;other&#8221; family, Lisa and Leif<br />
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		<title>Rocco Landesman should heed the positive experiences of Fed One!</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Apr 2010 18:44:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lisa Gilford</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Here it is, ladies and gents: DONE over fifty years ago. Why is everyone in the arts community dancing around when it&#8217;s all there in front of them? During FDR&#8217;s second administration, he finally focused on the arts community as being an integral part of a great society. Not anyone unemployed carried a lunchbox! So [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=lisaleegilford.com&amp;blog=7224427&amp;post=96&amp;subd=reddiaperbaby&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Here it is, ladies and gents: DONE over fifty years ago. Why is everyone in the arts community dancing around when it&#8217;s all there in front of them?</p>
<p>During FDR&#8217;s second administration, he finally focused on the arts community as being an integral part of a great society. Not anyone unemployed carried a lunchbox! So in addition to building roads and public building artists  painted murals on the walls of those public buildings and post offices, produce &#8220;living newspapers&#8221; plays, paintings, music and &#8220;The Slave Chronicles. Wouldn&#8217;t be surprised if we found Michelle Obama&#8217;s relatives recorded there! I could go on and on. People who got their start in<strong> Federal One</strong> include <em>Orson Wells, John Cheever, Mark Rothko </em>to name a few. Those gifts are still there today as living proof that Federal One produced one of the greatest creative periods, if not the greatest in this country&#8217;s short history.</p>
<p>We can do it again! Do we have to wait for Obama&#8217;s second administration to do it? Please check out my document on <strong>Federal One</strong> in a few days when it&#8217;s downloaded. In the meantime, Check out Federal One on the internet for yourselves!</p>
<p>Why are we (Rocco) trying to reinvent the wheel.? <strong>Federal One</strong> received one half of one percent of the Federal stimulus budget, today that would be about a billion dollars. It worked. It would work again. Take it to Congress. Most of those folks know nothing about it.</p>
<p>Get the information to Landesman. Remind him we knew each other at the University of Wisconsin in the sixties, and he knew my parents, Jack and Madeline Gilford. Who knows what arts and artists might be saved by following this vital and totally successful example from our history.</p>
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		<title>A little history about the blacklist</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Apr 2009 23:54:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Hollywood Blacklist was a list of professionals who were not allowed to participate in the entertainment industry due to their suspected or confirmed political beliefs. As you might imagine, the Hollywood Blacklist had a profound and far-reaching impact on the entertainment history in the middle of the 20th century, and it continues to be [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=lisaleegilford.com&amp;blog=7224427&amp;post=89&amp;subd=reddiaperbaby&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p>The <span class="yellowFade">Hollywood</span> <span class="yellowFade">Blacklist</span> was a list of professionals who were not allowed to participate in the entertainment industry due to their suspected or confirmed political beliefs. As you might imagine, the <span class="yellowFade">Hollywood</span> <span class="yellowFade">Blacklist</span> had a profound and far-reaching impact on the entertainment history in the middle of the 20th century, and it continues to be a topic of discussion and <a href="http://www.wisegeek.com/what-is-a-debate.htm">debate</a>. Sadly for many of the people included on the <span class="yellowFade">Hollywood</span> <span class="yellowFade">Blacklist</span>, this largely unofficial <span class="yellowFade">blacklist</span> ended the careers of many entertainment professionals, and seriously damaged the reputations of many more.<img class="alignright" src="http://www.writing.upenn.edu/%7Eafilreis/50s/blacklist.gif" alt="" width="256" height="372" /></p>
<p>It would be more accurate to term the <span class="yellowFade">Hollywood</span> <span class="yellowFade">Blacklist</span> the “entertainment industry <span class="yellowFade">blacklist</span>,” because it didn&#8217;t just have an impact on <span class="yellowFade">Hollywood</span>, although the home of the American film industry was certainly hard hit. The roots of the <span class="yellowFade">Blacklist</span> can be found in the 1930s, when a fear of <a href="http://www.wisegeek.com/what-is-communism.htm">communism</a> began to arise in America, and the government responded. In 1947, the House Unamerican Activities Committee (HUAC), which was charged with finding and dealing with communists in the United States, summoned several entertainment professionals to testify.</p>
<p>The “<span class="yellowFade">Hollywood</span> 10,” as they came to be known, refused to testify, igniting the American government and leading to an official statement from the film industry which came to be known as the Waldorf Statement. The signatories of the statement announced that they were firing the <span class="yellowFade">Hollywood</span> 10, and indicated a desire to eliminate subversives from the entertainment industry, bringing about the <span class="yellowFade">Hollywood</span> <span class="yellowFade">Blacklist</span>, which would dominate the industry for over a decade.</p>
<p>Many people think of high profile performers like <a href="http://www.wisegeek.com/who-is-charlie-chaplin.htm">Charlie Chaplin</a> when they visualize the <span class="yellowFade">Hollywood</span> <span class="yellowFade">Blacklist</span>. However, it also affected screenwriters, technicians, authors, musicians, lesser actors, and an assortment of other entertainers. To be listed on the <span class="yellowFade">Hollywood</span> <span class="yellowFade">Blacklist</span> was to see the potential end of one&#8217;s career, often on the basis of questionable and unverifiable information.</p>
<p>Many people on the <span class="yellowFade">Hollywood</span> <span class="yellowFade">Blacklist</span> were suspected communists or <a href="http://www.wisegeek.com/what-is-communism.htm">communist</a> sympathizers. A large number of them were official members of the American <a href="http://www.wisegeek.com/what-is-communism.htm">Communist Party</a>, making them easy targets, but others were blacklisted merely on the basis of association with known communists or public statements. Others were blacklisted for their involvement in liberal causes, ranging from the <a href="http://www.wisegeek.com/what-are-animal-rights.htm">animal rights</a> movement to humanitarian organizations.</p>
<p>The names on the <span class="yellowFade">Hollywood</span> <span class="yellowFade">Blacklist</span> were not made explicit, and it was intermittently enforced, but it attracted a great deal of public attention at the time and continues to do so. A number of famous and high profile people were blacklisted, much to the interest of their biographers, and some people have also been intrigued by the cases of lesser individuals on the <span class="yellowFade">Blacklist</span>, looking at their fates once their careers were destroyed. The collapse of the <span class="yellowFade">Hollywood</span> <span class="yellowFade">Blacklist</span> started on television in the late 1950s, when blacklisted individuals were hired by sympathetic people like <a href="http://www.wisegeek.com/who-is-alfred-hitchcock.htm">Alfred Hitchcock</a> and Betty Hutton, and from there it snowballed, rapidly becoming untenable.</p>
<p>source: <a href="http://www.wisegeek.com/what-was-the-hollywood-blacklist.htm">wisegeek.com</a></div>
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		<title>Blacklist &#8211; The Early Years</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Blacklist &#8211; the early years&#8230; This is the “Comedy Tonight” part…if you don’t know what that means, you will. Stay tuned. Eventually you’ll see the allusion in print. I hope these blogs entertain, educate, entice and most importantly are not a waste of your time. I’ll try to write every day, that’s the discipline part [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=lisaleegilford.com&amp;blog=7224427&amp;post=80&amp;subd=reddiaperbaby&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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This is the “Comedy Tonight” part…if you don’t know what that means, you will. Stay tuned. Eventually you’ll see the allusion in print. I hope these blogs entertain, educate, entice and most importantly are not a waste of your time. I’ll try to write every day, that’s the discipline part and include interesting people for you to Google, books to read and sites you might not know about.<br />
And please forgive me if these blogs are not in life’s chronological order. As Zero Mostel (yes, I knew him) said of my mother, Madeline. “With her, it’s all tributary, and never a fuckin’ river.” I’m afraid it’s in the DNA of all us Lederman women. But why apologize. Those fuckin’ tributaries are very, very interesting. To paraphrase Bette, ‘fasten your seatbelts and have a bumpy ride.’<br />
I’ll just start in the middle.<br />
My REAL life. After years of being asked ‘what’s Jack Gilford like in real life…what’s it like to meet all those stars in real life, how does it feel to see your father on TV?’ I never knew how to answer that. My real life assumes I had a fake one. I only had one, but with questions like this I figure my real life must’ve been different from other people and for this reason, interesting. Add to this the new interest in the Blacklist. We, the children of the Blacklist, even have our own label: Red Diaper Babies. Sounds glamorous. It wasn’t.<br />
1957. Wasn’t everyone Blacklisted?<br />
I was 10. There was no problem walking to school by myself. I just went straight down Bleeker Street, 14 blocks to Little Red School House. I assumed every kid had an FBI guy following her to school. In those days, we didn’t have the sensitivity, “don’t talk to strangers,” I don’t think. Not like when my kids were little, anyway. But in my house, we did have the daily instruction, “Don’t talk to that man following you to school.” Never occurred to me to ask ‘why.’ At home, watching ‘the boys’, my brothers Joe and Sam who were 4 and 2 respectively, the instructions were: “If a man comes to the door, open the door, with the chain on, and tell him ‘I am the babysitter,’ and close the door.” I knew how to do that because I’d watched my mother do it a number of times. Different men would come to our apartment door and ring the bell. We would run to the door, my mother rushing to get there first. “DO NOT OPEN THAT DOOR,” she would hiss at us. Then she would slide the chain on the bar and open the door the tiny amount the chain would allow. “Madeline Lee?” the voice in the hall would say. “No, the babysitter,” my mother would answer in that staccato, sharp, ‘I’m in charge’ voice of hers. Then she would slam the door. Growing up in Greenwich Village I assumed other kids had the same real life. Of course I went to Little Red School House so lots of the kids did have the same life, their parents, also Blacklisted. <img class="alignright" src="http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en/thumb/3/31/Hollywood10.jpg/275px-Hollywood10.jpg" alt="" width="275" height="232" /><br />
Summers we usually went to Fire Island, that tiny slip of a sandbar off Long Island, settling into the community of Ocean Beach with lots of other Blacklisted families to primarily escape the sweltering heat of New York City, but also to do what kids do in the summer. We played at the bay in the morning and the beach in the afternoon. We lived in rented, sandy bungalows with no TV, no radio and no phones. We loved it. You mean TV didn’t go off all over America during the summer? My mother stayed there with us most of the time. She couldn’t work then because she was blacklisted. Rarely she would get a job doing a voiceover for one of the soap operas on TV. Voiceover, off-stage because her face couldn’t be seen on TV because she was Blacklisted. She did baby cries. When she did have to leave, Lucille, our hefty, Black housekeeper from NYC would come out and stay with us. She always had a little, unlit butt between her lips and managed without ever dropping that butt to tell us we were very bad children and if we didn’t watch it, we would get a whooping with her belt. That’s another story.<br />
Back to the baby cries. My mother did them into a pillow and if you closed your eyes, it sounded just like a baby. I’d ask her to do the baby cry every time she met someone new and there was a pillow—couch, chair, any kind of pillow. She did that cry into the pillow well into her 85th year, with just a tiny bit of prodding. And it always sounded just like a baby crying.<br />
The ‘I’m the babysitter’ was actually my mother avoiding being served a subpoena to appear before HUAC (House UnAmericans Activity Committee). This I found out much later. But the ‘babysitter’ ploy worked for a few years except once and that was the last time she used it, on Fire Island. She was taking us home from the beach. I was on my tricycle, my mother was pulling the red wagon (there are no cars on Fire Island) with my brother, Joe, in the wagon with my brother, Sam. As we approached our bungalow, there was a huge, fat woman standing on the sidewalk, wearing shoes. That was a dead giveaway as no one on the island wore shoes. My mother had heard at the beach that a subpoena server named Delores Scotty had arrived earlier by ferry. She could’ve been looking for anyone on Ocean Beach but it was probably my mother, all her friends at the beach assumed. So seeing Delores Scotty blocking our path didn’t surprise my mother. “Madeline Lee,” she called to my mother. My mother responded with her usual, “I am not, I’m the babysitter,” line, as she took Sam out of the wagon, grabbed me, motioning for me to grab Joe and pushed past this big woman. What happened next might seem bizarre to anyone not familiar with how we lived, but to me, it was just what it was. Ms. Scotty followed us up the front steps, shouting, “I know who you are, you’re Madeline Lee.” Without a moment’s hesitation, my mother pushed Joe and me onto the porch and in one long motion swung Sam by his legs and hit Delores Scotty… with Sam. It made a squishy sound. Scotty was caught off guard. She stepped back, shouting and waving the folded paper, “I know you’re Madeline Lee and I am serving you.” My mother gave her a swift kick in the shins and with Sam back in her arms, another hard push that sent her reeling backwards. A friendly crowd had now gathered. “I am not Madeline Lee and you are trespassing on private property,” my mother shouted, playing directly to the angry mob. As the subpoena server stumbled backwards, she was engulfed in the barefoot crowd and shoved, pulled and pushed back down to the ferry gate, on to the ferry, back to Bayshore on the mainland, still waving that subpoena. Vodka and scotch all around for the friendly crowd when they returned to our bungalow.<br />
My mother wasn’t served that summer, but they did finally get her that Fall in New York. I remember when she testified. Actually, I wasn’t there, but I remember a teacher showing me the headline the next day in the New York Post: “Blonde Bombshell Tells McCarthy Where to Go.” Didn’t everyone have this kind of mother? This kind of summer? My REAL life? As opposed to what, my fake life as a farm girl in Kansas?</p>
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		<title>Jack and Maddy</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Apr 2009 22:18:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Brother can you spare a dime?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Apr 2009 22:10:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Today and almost everyday for that matter&#8230; I run the gamut between being depressed and being happy to be alive. When I’m depressed it grows as the day goes on. Dishes in the sink, wash that should be done, another sunny day… yes! Sunny days are horrible if you’re depressed cause you feel you just [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=lisaleegilford.com&amp;blog=7224427&amp;post=48&amp;subd=reddiaperbaby&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Today and almost everyday for that matter&#8230; I run the gamut between being depressed and being happy to be alive. When I’m depressed it grows as the day goes on. Dishes in the sink, wash that should be done, another sunny day… yes! Sunny days are horrible if you’re depressed cause you feel you just shouldn’t be depressed on a sunny day. It’s better to have rain, snow or gloom and cold. Then you can wallow in it. And then there’s always that mantra after the morning trip to the scale: “Why didn’t I lose any weight yesterday? I ate practically nothing. Dammit, I am sooooo fat.”<br />
I have my rituals for trying to stay upbeat. I do “Ana Becho’ach Angels of the Day” every morning, I read my Kabbalah thought of the day on line, I even try to do a bit of Meditation or Holosync but god help me if I glance at an email from HSUS or a plea for help from a dog and cat shelter! Last Sunday the New York Times ran a piece in the first section “Iraq deals with 20,000 stray dogs.” I wasn’t going to read it, then I got sucked in. Oh my god. The cruelty, even from the children on these poor dogs. Now the police are poisoning the dogs and leaving them to die on the streets. This after a life of kids hurling bricks, starvation and broken bones. I was destroyed for the whole day. I thought about contacting the SPCA since they already deal with getting pups back to soldiers after they’ve left Iraq, but in the end I did nothing. I consoled myself with the thought that someone else was moved by the horrendous story and would do something about it. It wasn’t much consolation, however because this thinking is what makes horrible things worse. People thinking someone else will take care of it.<br />
On to the title for today: <span style="font-weight:bold;">Brother Can You Spare A Dime</span>. That song was written by <span style="font-weight:bold;">E.Y. Harburg</span> during the depression. “Yip” was not only a close family friend, but he was also my brother Joe’s godfather. We have “Yip” stories galore and pictures were all over our house. He even gave me a piano for one of my birthdays! For those who don’t’ know, he also wrote among others. My mother always adored Yip. There was talk that she might have had a thing with him at one time. While on Martha’s Vineyard one summer, I heard Jack (Gilford) and my mother fighting late at night about the fact that Yip had put his hand on my mother’s derreier! Jack was so offended by that move. My mother poo-pooed the whole thing.<br />
The point is that I knew the guy who wrote that song. So when that song comes on TV, the radio, wherever, especially now with its Depression-Era significance, I think, wow, how many people can say they really knew Yip. Then I get depressed because who the hell cares? And why should I? Then I think, I should be doing something more with my life. After all, I’m different, not better, just unique in whom I know and my life experiences.<br />
Then I get depressed that on only a few occasions have I taken advantage of my background: When I created <span style="font-style:italic;">American Theater Showcase in Aspen</span> in 1986. We did 2 huge shows (one a year) with every Broadway person available including a very young <span style="font-weight:bold;">Savion Glover</span>, maybe 9 years old! Others included<span style="font-weight:bold;"> Jo Sullivan Loesser, Gretchen Wyler, Edie Adams, Patryce Munsel, Kim Criswell, Mary Cleere Haran, Martin Vidnovic, Nora Mae Ling, the whole cast from Ain&#8217;t Misbehavin-</span>-I&#8217;m just looking at the photo. Doesn&#8217;t do the rest of the musical greats justice. I will dig out an old program and name then all. Look carefully at the photo I posted with this blog and see if you can identify some of the others. They all came from New York, compliments of Continental Airlines, and the help of musical genius, Michael Colbyand stayed for free in Aspen and performed at the <span style="font-weight:bold;">Wheeler Opera House.</span> The town and the performers all had a ball. It was before email. My mother and I sent out post cards asking everyone she knew to come to Aspen and perform at this benefit. And they did. I got <span style="font-weight:bold;">NBC News</span> to cover it. My 15 minutes? Maybe. Then I did it again the next year and in between we did Equity workshops of new musicals on their way to <span style="font-weight:bold;">New York.</span> Everyone stayed at the Aspen Institute in donated accommodations. It was a tremendous undertaking but what fun to be working with my family and using all our cumulative experience in the theater. Just divorced from husband #1, looking forward to an exciting life with future husband #2, with whom I had a fiery two-year affair. Another story for another time.<br />
I’m guilty being depressed because I have a roof over my head, paid for by husband #2, whom I haven’t lived with since 1999, dogs and cats who eat very well, a beautiful mid-century house which I bought in 2004 for a song, renovated to include a solarium and now all my mother’s great poster art. What right do I have to be depressed? So what if I’m 62? People think I look much younger. Then I get depressed because I have no right to be depressed! And why can’t I just DO SOMETHING. That’s when I scour the yellow pages for adult tap classes, pick up my old guitar and play something (very badly) and hate myself for missing another day of HOT YOGA. Why can’t I make my life more relevant? Make more lasting contributions?<br />
Writing a blog about myself for a handful of people, mostly my friends is all I seem to be doing in that direction right now.<br />
Phew! Enough about myself. So here’s something that everyone is interested in knowing: All about Bed Linens.<br />
<span style="font-style:italic;">Best way to launder those sheets</span>? One of the worst things you can do is use fabric softeners and those dryer sheets. They dull colors, actually break down cotton and cause linens to lose their softness. The dryer sheets leave a residue that actually makes it difficult to rinse clean. To brighten your linens and get rid of residue build up you should wash them with 1/4 cup of white vinegar (no detergent) every six weeks. And always use cold water when laundering sheets. Wash packaged sheets before you use them in white vinegar, no detergent.<br />
<span style="font-style:italic;">What is thread count</span>: It’s the umber of threads per square inch of fabric. The higher the count, the better &#8212; below 600. Above 600, it’s simply a heavier sheet. Egyptian cotton is the strongest and longest-staple cotton. If you can’t afford a high-thread-count sheet, just be sure it’s 100% cotton.<br />
<span style="font-style:italic;">Getting that ironed look:</span> Ironing is the best, of course, but most people don’t have the time. A good alternative is to dry them on low or medium until just damp, then make the bed. They will look ironed.<br />
So there you are. I didn’t make up this information. My aunt, <span style="font-weight:bold;">Fran Lee</span>, was <span style="font-weight:bold;">“Mrs. Fixit</span>” on Channel 5-TV in New York in the fifties and sixties, preceding Betty Furness by some years. She was the original Heloise. When her family moved her to Israel two years ago (at the age of 97) I inherited all her scrapbooks. The information is still valid. I also found some of this information in a piece in the Washington Post earlier this year. If you liked this tip and want to see more like it, please let me know. I’ve got plenty of them.</p>
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